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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

Welcome home, my lovelies. Enjoy your stay.


Recent Posts

I am railing against the Christian beliefs that steal happiness and self-love from women's lives.

Why God Shits Me

It was OK to lie about my transgressions and continue in the church, but once I admitted I enjoyed sex and refused to follow the path of repentance and future abstinence I was asked to leave — labelled as a ‘backslider’.

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Not the Mumma

I have never been pregnant, never had morning sickness, never breastfed and never held my own baby. There is no one on this earth who has my genetic legacy.

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Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

When the man you’re in love with spends so much time away from home, is it ‘out of sight, out of mind’ or ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’?

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50 Shades of Grey

My hair is now 100% natural (and looks lighter outside in natural light). Hence the title … 50 shades of grey.

Love brings with it the knowledge that your heart will eventually break.

I give you permission to break my heart

Part of me realises that being in love means that my heart will get broken one day. We’ll either break up or one of us will die leaving the other behind. It’s a pain waiting for me somewhere off in the future.

networking in the real world

The Secret to Networking in the Real World

Imagine this – a room full of a couple of hundred people you don’t know and you’re required to ‘network’ with them.

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The graduate rap

I’m a High Distinction Girly | but I don’t look like Liz Hurley

an irrational fear of dying

an irrational fear of death

When you love someone you want them to stay safe, you want them in your life for a long time, and you don’t want to imagine a world without them in it.