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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

Warriewood Beach by Nigel Howe

Living the Dream

Next weekend, my boyfriend and I will move to a beach house on a hill on Sydney’s northern beaches. From the lounge, kitchen and bedroom we will have views over the park, past the trees and out to the Pacific.

The Worst Thing Imaginable

It’s that niggling worry at the back of your mind you don’t talk about. The nightmares you have about death and dying. You try to imagine what it will feel like if (when?) something really bad happens to you.

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Tell Me What You Will Miss When You Die

Getting up at 5am to run in the cold icy dawn…or feeling your boyfriend inside you while the curtains of sleep still soften the thoughts in your brain…

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Connection to Me

What amazes me is this connection with my body. When I was dieting, I tried so hard to ignore the biological impulse of hunger that I blocked everything else out.

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RUOK won’t always make a difference

I believe that we should always remind our family and friends how much we love them, but in the end, they make their own decisions.

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Three Years Sober

Today I have been sober for three years. My addiction wasn’t drugs or alcohol but using food and exercise as a means of both punishment and comfort. I have/had bulimia.

A Day of Remembering

It is World Suicide Prevention Day today and I feel obliged to write something deep and insightful to make my husband’s death mean something.

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The Toaster

There were a whole lot of possessions I left behind when I left my marriage. The toaster was one of them. This is a love story about a toaster.