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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

the afternoon - creating our future selves

The Afternoon

As I get older I worry that my productive, vital years are behind me. Perhaps I only have ten more years before my body and my mind breaks down.

gracefully grey

Silver Fox

Sexy isn’t about your age, the colour of your hair, the size of your body, the wrinkles on your face. Age isn’t a shameful secret kept undisclosed to ensure others desire you, love you or respect you.

stolen kiss

Always a Cheat?

One single kiss and now Kristen Stewart is branded a cheat, her reputation tarnished forever. I know how she feels. It all started with a kiss for me as well …

African woman

Study proves exercise WON’T help you lose weight

African women on the plains of Tanzania vs. Western women – who has the highest total energy expenditure in a day? (the answer will surprise you)

otters

Living Over t’Brush

Four months and one day after I met Duckfish we moved in together. It wasn’t my idea. In fact, I was fiercely defending my decision to stay in the tiny one bedroom flat that was all my own.

candle

Sorry I’m Not Sorry

It’s a curious kind of survivors’ guilt. Not the kind that makes me feel guilty for still being alive when someone else is dead, but the kind that makes me feel bad for not feeling bad.

tunnel @ head-heart-health.com

It Could Have Been Worse

In my imagination I am lying in bed with Duckfish, asleep, in my old flat around the corner from here. It is 3am. An unusual sound wakes me. I see a familiar figure standing at the end of the bed. He is holding a gun.

arie and jef

The Good Guy or the Hot Guy?

My question is … how do you know if a guy is ‘the one’? Do you think there really is just one you can love with both your heart and your head?