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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

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a body that changes | a spirit that remains

Who you are as a person is important to the world. You are the only person who can do the job of being you. Everything about you is exactly the way it needs to be for you to fulfil your purpose on this earth.

a love letter

A Love Letter

I made you into the person I wanted you to be, without taking into account you might be someone completely different.

52 things I wish I knew before I started to diet

52 things I wish I knew before I started to diet

33. Everyone looks great naked through the eyes of love

box of darkness

Short & (Bitter) Sweet

“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift.” ― Mary Oliver

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Moral Ambiguity

I am the woman who believes that the meaning of life is the connections we make with other people and here I am pulling away from those who are meant to be the most loving of all.

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Eighteen Years

Eighteen years ago on 11 June 1994 I walked down the aisle and married the man I left sixteen years later.

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Here Comes the Bride

There seems to be a lot of this marriage thing going around.

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How do you want to feel?

Sometimes when you achieve your goals — the man, the holiday, the house and the body — you discover that it’s not as satisfying as you hoped. So you move on the next thing … praying this time you’ll get what you need.