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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

Welcome home, my lovelies. Enjoy your stay.


Recent Posts

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I remember the anticipation of pain and not the pain

I remember clearly not wanting to leave the house. I remember every detail of how I thought it would turn out. The questions, the paperwork, trying to say the words without breaking down. It was the last thing I wanted to do

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Committing to more than feelings

It is 2010 and I’m still at my old job. I sit at my desk in my office, in front of the huge windows that…

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What is Self-Love? What is the Love Matrix?

Self-love is believing you can get through whatever life throws at you and that you deserve happiness. The Love Matrix Project will switch on a light in the darkness and show you you’re stronger and more worthy of happiness than you think.

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The other time I had an eating disorder that you don’t know about

Restricting, bingeing and purging had happened to me in my life once before, many years ago.

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Why a relapse means you’re following your dreams

When you have a disordered behaviour (like disordered eating or substance abuse) you use it to cope with stress.

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Self-love is not the answer

The problem is we believe self-love is the answer, the goal, the destination and the meaning of life. It’s not.

For the ladies searching for love

I know that you long for a man to share your experience of the world with. But at the same time you feel like this yearning is wrong and you should be happy being alone. I’m here to tell you that wanting to be with a man who loves you is the core of your feminine essence. I give you permission to want an intimate connection.

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The Best Valentine’s Day in the Entire History of the Universe Ever – Year 2

Thank you Duckfish. You continue to delight me. I’m loving you baby.