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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

Welcome home, my lovelies. Enjoy your stay.


Recent Posts

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[Guest Post] The Sex

I waited almost 25 years to have sex. I decided to have sex with my first boyfriend eight weeks shy of my 25th birthday. I didn’t hurt. It wasn’t fantastic. It was just … whatever.

I want it all and I want it NOW

I’m impatient. Things always take much longer than I want them to. It’s a huge character flaw that has no remedy.

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Dickheads are self-evident

Sometimes people are just fucking annoying. Sorry, but in some cases it’s impossible to be warm and engaging with someone who’s being an idiot.

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You don’t deserve any of this

At times I feel bad when I read about other women whose struggles seem much tougher than mine. My self-indulgent nonsense about my body image and my issues with going to a gym seem so pathetic at times.

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What if there was no outcome, no result, no goal?

What if I went to the gym just because I liked going to the gym? Were there good things about training I had overlooked in the past? Could I enjoy it for its own sake rather than as a means to an end?

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Why my boyfriend and I should break up

I told him I was feeling neglected. He came to the conclusion his job was incompatible with a relationship. Should I get out now to prevent future heartache?

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The Lie of Self-Love

The self-love movement tells us when we love ourselves we feel good about ourselves. We like what we see in the mirror, we stop beating ourselves up and we take great care of ourselves all the time. I’m here to tell you that’s a lie.

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Up Close and Personal with My Idol + What the Fuck do I ask her?

My most favourite famous person ever has agreed for me to interview her for my humble little blog. I’m almost peeing my pants.And I’m petrified. I have no idea what to ask her. So I came up with a plan.