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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

Welcome home, my lovelies. Enjoy your stay.


Recent Posts

The truth about romance

The Truth about Romance

Romance — or hot heavy ‘can’t get enough of you’ sex — remains one of the most powerful experiences we have in our lifetime. When you’re drowning in ecstasy every night Universe is full of magic; you look, feel and move differently in the world.

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Cake Shop

I stand in front of the glass display counter waiting to be served. In front of me are shelves of delicious mud cakes, cheese cake and hand-made chocolates. I quite like a slice of cake on occasion but my true love is chocolate.

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The real reason why something was missing in my life

Sometimes I wondered if I had multiple personality disorder. It was like I was a totally different person depending on the situation I was in. Some of the time I was in control, kicking arse and proud of who I was, and other times I was drowning in insecurity.

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[Guest Post] Will we prove them wrong?

Everyone doubted we would last; everyone thought we were hasty, irresponsible, rushing into it, fuelled by lust, doomed to fail. But we were going to prove them wrong, laugh and look back when we were old and wrinkly and fat from eating too much cheese and drinking too much wine.

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Why the grass IS always greener on the other side of the fence

“The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” is not said to encourage you to leave what you have for what appears better — instead it warns you that whatever is out of your reach is always going to look better than what you have, but it will let you down.

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Why my childhood was shit (and so was yours)

My childhood was terrible. My parents never raised their voices in anger. Instead there was cold quiet seething flowing underneath every difficult conversation.

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[Interview] The lovely Renee Stephens stops by to chat

But what if it’s not our own flawed willpower or sluggish metabolism that’s to blame? What if we’ve just been using the wrong tools for the job? The truth is that dieting actually makes us fatter because it’s focused on control and deprivation.

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Your special invitation to be a Love Ninja

I know about relationships — out in the world, at home, and in the bedroom. So I created the Love Matrix Project to remind someone like you that you’re already good enough.