A Triangular Theory of Love
In order to experience consummate love in a relationship, we have to find a way to have intimacy, commitment and passion. As passion is something we have very little control over – how do we do it?
Tag Archives: relationships
It sucks – but some things can’t be fixed
If you’re a women who has no sexual desire for your boyfriend or husband, there’s no magic pill, no morning affirmation, no five simple steps that will fix it. You can’t change the way you feel about someone just because you want to.
Sex • What’s the point again?
If you’re talking about just the physical act of sexual intercourse devoid of anything else, then unless it’s your preferred method for achieving an orgasm, then there might be little point in it. But sex is more than what’s described in Biology text books. Sex is an art, not a science.
[Guest Post] I am more than this
I am meant for more than what I have become. However, there is no room in my world for any of the things I want, so I sit in silence and let the storm rage within. Silent. Afraid to offend. Threatened with being left alone for wanting to be me.
You are sexier than you think
Society tells us that unless we are beautiful, young and slender, we can’t possibly be sexually attractive. By believing this lie we are giving away our power.
For 735 Days I Have Loved You
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.
Standing on the edge
The longer we stay together, is it more likely that we will crash and burn, or are we still together because we’re solid and safe?
The sublime paradox of ‘Nobody Gives a Fuck’
My partner never notices me – if I painted myself green he wouldn’t even look up from the football. Nobody gives a fuck about me.
What writing can teach you about sex ~ 5 ways to get unstuck
I got unstuck, after being stuck for months. Here is how you can apply the lessons I learnt to your sex life or anything else where you’re stuck + the Love Matrix Project scholarship winners.
Imagine This [Again]
In this mythical time, you were born a woman, the most revered and respected gender on the planet. By the accident of your birth, you now hold the keys to power, riches, love and limitless joy because you are female. You possess the most revered powers – to physically procreate and spiritually regenerate.
The Truth about Romance
Romance — or hot heavy ‘can’t get enough of you’ sex — remains one of the most powerful experiences we have in our lifetime. When you’re drowning in ecstasy every night Universe is full of magic; you look, feel and move differently in the world.
The real reason why something was missing in my life
Sometimes I wondered if I had multiple personality disorder. It was like I was a totally different person depending on the situation I was in. Some of the time I was in control, kicking arse and proud of who I was, and other times I was drowning in insecurity.
[Guest Post] Will we prove them wrong?
Everyone doubted we would last; everyone thought we were hasty, irresponsible, rushing into it, fuelled by lust, doomed to fail. But we were going to prove them wrong, laugh and look back when we were old and wrinkly and fat from eating too much cheese and drinking too much wine.