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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

Welcome home, my lovelies. Enjoy your stay.


Recent Posts

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[Guest Post] I am more than this

I am meant for more than what I have become. However, there is no room in my world for any of the things I want, so I sit in silence and let the storm rage within. Silent. Afraid to offend. Threatened with being left alone for wanting to be me.

Out of Africa

Out of Africa – a unconventional way to deal with negative thoughts

It’s when we get stuck in our head and what we’re thinking diminishes our experiences of the present moment that there’s a problem. Ruminating about past event or predicting future calamities can also trigger painful emotions that make us feel like shit.

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Why happiness is a lie

Making happiness the goal of our lives is what will make us fundamentally unhappy.

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Half birthdays, therapy, blogging & ninjas

Today is my half birthday. I am forty-seven and a half today. I celebrate a half birthday on April 16 because it helps me get through April 15 which is the anniversary of my husband’s suicide.

You are sexier than you think

Society tells us that unless we are beautiful, young and slender, we can’t possibly be sexually attractive. By believing this lie we are giving away our power.

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For 735 Days I Have Loved You

Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.

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April

April – It begins with an anniversary — our first date was two years ago today. But when this day arrives, I know that ten days later it will be the anniversary of the day that changed everything.

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The question of silence

Sean O’Malley, the creator of Cardio Coach, first appeared on my old blog in March 2007. I’ve mentioned him in posts no less than six times. Today I found out that Sean O’Malley passed away suddenly on Sunday at age 40.