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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

I am fifty years old and my ovaries are on their last legs. They manage to muster up enough effort to squeeze out a tired old egg every couple of months or so, but to be honest, we’ve reached the bottom of the barrel. Very soon there will be none left.

C is for Children • #atozchallenge

I am fifty years old and my ovaries are on their last legs. They manage to muster up enough effort to squeeze out a tired…

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B is for Beauty • #atozchallenge

If I had a daughter, against all advice to the contrary, I would tell her she is beautiful. I would also tell her she is…

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A is for Anti-Aging • #atozchallenge

The advertisement promises: Triple anti-aging action: anti-wrinkle, firming and radiance boosting. When it comes to younger looking skin, we all want immediate results, but also improved skin…

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Letting Go of the Past • #1000speak

When my husband took his own life, he took part of mine with him. I was angry at him for a long time. In one moment…

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The Happiness Creed

The arguments on my friend’s Facebook page descend into name-calling. It is to be expected, of course. She’s been talking about religion. I sit and witness…

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Self Portrait 365|132 • February Collage

I was almost going to take a photo of my legs in crazy tights today and pass it off as my self-portrait but then I…

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Self Portrait 365|129 • The Cow Jumped Over the Moon

There is a drawing of a spotted cow on my blue mug. She is stranded midair on a crescent moon. ‘Nothing is ever easy’ the…

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Making it Home • #1000speak

My friend Jill stood in line at the checkout. Through the store speakers, strains of I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas floated down to mingle…