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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

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Self Portrait 365|92 • There is No Babysitter

Is it possible that I am the only one who has given up religion, or are other people tip-toeing around the issue the same way as I have?

Selfish Grief • Mourning the Loss of Myself

When I read about other people’s grief, I am ashamed. I cannot legitimately take my place among those who mourn the loss of someone they…

the self portrait • a demonstration of self acceptance

The Self Portrait • a demonstration of self-acceptance

What if taking a self-portrait helped me accept who I am and what I look like?
The idea seemed feasible. Totally feasible but completely scary.

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The Best Dinner in the History of the Universe Ever

I don’t normally take photos of food, but this was so exquisite and so beautiful I wanted to remember it forever.

wounds and scars • yielding to the darkness

Wounds and Scars • Yielding to the Darkness

Here are my wounds. Here are my scars. Body shame, shyness, anxiety, guilt, fear, hopelessness.
Will they ever be fixed? I don’t think so. Is darkness such a bad thing?

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Monkey Magic • an Adventure in Malaysia

My boyfriend and I extended the long weekend into a mini city break and flew to Malaysia for four days. We stayed at the glorious Villa Samadhi, a traditionally inspired oasis in the centre of Kuala Lumpur.

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The Pleasure Principle • Following Your Bliss

Somewhere along the way, pleasure has developed a bad reputation. According to the experts, only selfish people give in to their desires. I don’t agree.

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Growing Old Disgracefully • Not Your Grandma’s Grey

Rather than believing that my best days are in the past, I am looking forward to middle age. I don’t subscribe to the notion that joy belongs only to the young — in fact, I’m beginning to think that youth is highly overrated.