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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

Letter to a Young Writer by Colum McCann

Colum McCann, author of Thirteen Ways of Looking, shares some advice for the young (and not so young) writer. It is also wonderful advice for anyone…

How Storytelling Bloggers Get Massive Traffic From Pinterest

Bloggers who write about their lives don’t always feel at home on Pinterest, but by following these 6 steps you can attract massive traffic to your blog.

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The Beauty of Imperfection • a spot of DIY

I have owned these bedside tables since the 1980’s. I bought them in natural pine, but soon painted them black to match the waterbed(!) I had at the…

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Don’t Settle for Comfortable • Seek Love

I spent a long time thinking relationships should be the variety my parents have — a polite, comfortable, solid, long-term, come hell or high water…

10 Inspirational Quotes from Rumi

My holiday gift to you is 10 inspirational quotes from Rumi for you to use however you like without attribution. Please feel free to share them on Pinterest,…

What I Learned From Almost Breaking Up

I had always thought it would take an apocalypse for my boyfriend to stop loving me. But here we were breaking up over something I never saw coming.

A Vivid Imagination

Roger intrigued me from the first moment I saw his on-screen name — Amare Sine Timore. I didn’t know what it meant and he wouldn’t…

Making Your Second Marriage (or Relationship) Better than the First

Some folk leave their marriage or long-term relationship with elegance and grace. Some of us have catastrophic break ups that leave us cowering under the…