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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

10 Reasons Why You Should Have Sex on the First Date

There is an article doing the rounds that urges people (the author is surprisingly a man) to wait before they have sex with someone new. Everyone is…

Searching for Fullness

Women seem to have the hardest time with overeating, dieting and obsessing about food. Perhaps the reason for this is that most women have a feminine…

How to Make a Pinterest Pin in PowerPoint in Under 5 Mins

When the photos we use for our blog posts are horizontal, it is challenging to make them into a vertical pin. The problem is that…

Suicide • Why Nobody Loves Me Isn’t a Good Enough Reason to Kill Yourself

When I wrote 10 Things You Should Know Before You Kill Yourself, I spoke from the only perspective I know — my experience as the…

What to Do When Your Partner Cheats

When I published my post I Had an Affair and I’m Not Ashamed, I received a lot of hate mail. One friend posted on my Facebook…

Marked in Ink • a Search for Immortality

On my left wrist, scratched into my skin is a red heart with angel’s wings. I had it done on my 45th birthday at The Illustrated…

I had an affair and I’m not ashamed

If I had been born at a different time you might have stoned me, or forced me to wear a scarlet letter upon my dress.…

Why your self-love efforts aren’t working

After I finished writing yesterday’s post on the three types of love strategies between a couple, it occurred to me that the same principles apply…

Why your attempts at love are failing (and what to do about it)

How do you know someone loves you? No really, how do you know? Can you remember a time when you felt totally loved? When was…

The Blogging Sisterhood • Celebrating 1000 Posts

In the control panel of my blog, the counter for the number of posts sits at 999. I hesitate to write the 1,000th post because…

why my childhood was shit and so was yours

Why no one escapes childhood intact

As part of the discussion around legalising same-sex marriage in Australia, an American woman named Katy Faust has been playing the ‘rights of the children’ card.…

How to make a woman's blood run hot

How to Make a Woman’s Blood Run Hot

I have experienced first-hand what it means to be with a man who I love emotionally, mentally and physically and there is no way I…