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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

25 Ways to Keep the Magic Alive in Your Relationship

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21 Things Women Want in a Man

I asked a group of 1367 Sassy Midlife Women what they wanted most in a man. These are their top 21 answers in order of popularity. It is…

The Top Ten Ted Talks for the Sexually Curious

The Top Ten Ted Talks about sexuality, relationships, orgasms, passion, seduction and love. (1) 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Orgasm “Bonk” author Mary Roach…

10 Simple Steps to a Healthy Relationship

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How to Stop Smoking

If you had told me last week that I would be smoke free today, I wouldn’t have believed you. I was one of those people who…

10 Ways to Leave Your Lover

The space between knowing a relationship is over, and actually leaving can be a yawning chasm of fear and uncertainty. If you’ve taken the test,…

Swim • an Unholy Baptism

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Loving the Trolls • How to Deal with Online Abuse

Getting comments on my blog used to be the highlight of my day. When I got an email notification in my inbox, I would rush…

How an Altar Boy Became the Other Man

As someone who has both outgrown religion, and who has been swept up in an affair, I am fascinated when I hear of a similar experience. Austin’s…

Modern Dating Etiquette • The Ten Commandments

(1) Thou shalt not use a profile photograph which has been digitally altered. Soft lighting and makeup can be used to accentuate your charms, but retouching with…

The Secret to Making a Modest Living Online

I‘ve been trying to make money online since I first started blogging back in 2007. I have followed all the advice and tried more schemes…

A Valentine’s Day Dirge

Valentine’s Day sucks. Which may sound odd coming from someone who ceaselessly praises love and sex, but it is true. I am not a fan. My…