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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Modern Dating Etiquette • The Ten Commandments

(1) Thou shalt not use a profile photograph which has been digitally altered. Soft lighting and makeup can be used to accentuate your charms, but retouching with…

The Secret to Making a Modest Living Online

I‘ve been trying to make money online since I first started blogging back in 2007. I have followed all the advice and tried more schemes…

A Valentine’s Day Dirge

Valentine’s Day sucks. Which may sound odd coming from someone who ceaselessly praises love and sex, but it is true. I am not a fan. My…

How to Survive Rejection Without Losing Your Mind

You’ve been dating him for a few months now and things are going well. Or so you thought until one morning, out of the blue, you…

Female Orgasms • The Surprising Secret No One Mentions

You’re lying wide awake in bed, listening to your partner snore. He has drifted blissfully off to sleep in a post-coital haze of satisfaction. But…

The 10 Kinds of Men You Will Date after 40

Phew! You can breathe a sigh of relief — you have made it through a bad breakup or divorce and you are ready to face…

Letter to a Young Writer by Colum McCann

Colum McCann, author of Thirteen Ways of Looking, shares some advice for the young (and not so young) writer. It is also wonderful advice for anyone…

How Storytelling Bloggers Get Massive Traffic From Pinterest

Bloggers who write about their lives don’t always feel at home on Pinterest, but by following these 6 steps you can attract massive traffic to your blog.

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The Beauty of Imperfection • a spot of DIY

I have owned these bedside tables since the 1980’s. I bought them in natural pine, but soon painted them black to match the waterbed(!) I had at the…

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Don’t Settle for Comfortable • Seek Love

I spent a long time thinking relationships should be the variety my parents have — a polite, comfortable, solid, long-term, come hell or high water…

10 Inspirational Quotes from Rumi

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What I Learned From Almost Breaking Up

I had always thought it would take an apocalypse for my boyfriend to stop loving me. But here we were breaking up over something I never saw coming.