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Apr162015Dec 26 2015

N is for Needy • #atozchallenge

by KatieP, in category Heart | Love & Romance

It was my husband’s day off and he seemed in a pleasant mood. Mid-morning — late enough for him to be awake and early enough for him not to have started drinking — he was in the kitchen tidying up from the night before. Years of beer and takeaway had made him heavy and slow.… Read More

Apr142015Nov 8 2015

L is for Longevity • what if love doesn’t need to last forever?

by KatieP, in category Heart | Love & Romance

Before I was married, I spent most of my time sampling a smorgasbord of lovers, without feeling any need to restrict my appetites to only one person. During those heady days of sexual freedom, there was always the thought in the back of my mind that I would one day ‘settle down’. I never questioned the expectation that… Read More

Apr132015Nov 25 2015

K is for Kissing

by KatieP, in category Health | Sexuality

When I first met my boyfriend on the street outside my house five years ago, he hugged me and then kissed me on the lips. Just as they describe in books and songs, the heavens opened and the angels sang. This man was hands down the best kisser I’d ever met. They say you can… Read More

Apr102015Dec 25 2015

I is for Invisible • 8 simple ways to fight back

by KatieP, in category Health | Sexuality

Women of a certain age complain loudly about feeling invisible. They report being ignored in shops and restaurants, eyes glancing past them as though they weren’t even there. Many women are reluctant to stop colouring their hair because they think this will make the problem worse. In the society we live in, older people in general,… Read More

Apr82015Apr 18 2015

G is for Gender Roles • #atozchallenge

by KatieP, in category Heart | Love & Romance

As soon as the taxi dropped me at home, I telephoned my mother to let her know I was safe and sound. “How long were you away this time?” she asked. “Nine weeks,” I said. “We had rehearsals in Tokyo and then performed at the Singapore Arts Festival.” There was a long silence on the other end… Read More

Apr62015Nov 4 2015

E is for Excommunication

by KatieP, in category Head | Mindfulness
e is for excommunication

The pastor stared at his hands as if he were avoiding looking at me. “Are you sleeping with him?” he asked. I wondered for a moment if I should lie and tell him no. But lying was as much of a sin as fornication. Maybe it was less of a sin. I wasn’t sure anymore.… Read More

Apr42015Jun 28 2016

D is for Dad • #atozchallenge

by KatieP, in category Health | Midlife
D is for Dad • remembering Bob

He’s my dad but I like to call him Bob. When I was a little he used to say “When people say ‘Bob’s your uncle’, you can say ‘actually, Bob’s my father.’” In the photos I have of him when he was young, I can see a spark of mischief in his brown eyes. It seemed… Read More

Apr32015Mar 18 2016

C is for Children • #atozchallenge

by KatieP, in category Health | Midlife
I am fifty years old and my ovaries are on their last legs. They manage to muster up enough effort to squeeze out a tired old egg every couple of months or so, but to be honest, we’ve reached the bottom of the barrel. Very soon there will be none left.

I am fifty years old and my ovaries are on their last legs. They manage to muster up enough effort to squeeze out a tired old egg every couple of months or so, but to be honest, we’ve reached the bottom of the barrel. Very soon there will be none left. I could be accused… Read More

Feb142015

Self Portrait 365|118 • Valentine’s Day Year 5

by KatieP, in category Heart | Love & Romance, Self Portrait 365
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First best is falling in love. Second best is being in love. Least best is falling out of love. But any of it is better than never having been in love. ― Maya Angelou My lovely boyfriend went out early this morning and bought me flowers and a card. He’s a bit of alright.  

Feb52015Feb 5 2015

Self Portrait 365|109 • An Anniversary of Sorts

by KatieP, in category Self Portrait 365
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When my boyfriend and I started going out, every month we celebrated the anniversary of the night we met. It has become a tradition that we still continue. So today, on the 5th February, we have been together for fifty-eight months or four years and ten months. Another month has sped by and I couldn’t… Read More

Jan72015Aug 26 2015

Selfish Grief • Mourning the Loss of Myself

by KatieP, in category Head | Mindfulness

When I read about other people’s grief, I am ashamed. I cannot legitimately take my place among those who mourn the loss of someone they loved, someone who they miss every day and who they long to see again for just a few moments. My husband is dead, and the manner of his death was unnatural… Read More

Aug82014Mar 18 2016

Attribution Bias • Why Where You Are is as Important as Who You Are

by KatieP, in category Head | Mindfulness
attribution bias • why where you are is as important as who you are

When I look back at my long marriage to a man who was emotionally damaged and took that damage out on me, I wonder why I stuck it out so long. I think of myself as intelligent, mature and courageous and yet all these character traits seemed absent within the four walls of our private lives. Allowing someone to abuse me for so long just doesn’t seem feasible given my personality.

Aug42014Sep 4 2015

Whispers in the Night • There is Nothing I Can Do

by KatieP, in category Health | Sexuality

There is a voice that whispers to me in the middle of the night, telling me my boyfriend is going to die. While he snores, while his breath is thick and heavy, I am reassured that he lives. It’s when he is quiet that I worry. I reach out to touch his back to make sure his chest is rising and falling, I watch the bedspread to make sure there is movement.

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