Sorry I’m Not Sorry
It’s a curious kind of survivors’ guilt. Not the kind that makes me feel guilty for still being alive when someone else is dead, but the kind that makes me feel bad for not feeling bad.
Category Archives: Health | Sexuality
It Could Have Been Worse
In my imagination I am lying in bed with Duckfish, asleep, in my old flat around the corner from here. It is 3am. An unusual sound wakes me. I see a familiar figure standing at the end of the bed. He is holding a gun.
Not the Mumma
I have never been pregnant, never had morning sickness, never breastfed and never held my own baby. There is no one on this earth who has my genetic legacy.
Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder
When the man you’re in love with spends so much time away from home, is it ‘out of sight, out of mind’ or ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’?
50 Shades of Grey
My hair is now 100% natural (and looks lighter outside in natural light). Hence the title … 50 shades of grey.
The Secret to Networking in the Real World
Imagine this – a room full of a couple of hundred people you don’t know and you’re required to ‘network’ with them.
The graduate rap
I’m a High Distinction Girly | but I don’t look like Liz Hurley
an irrational fear of death
When you love someone you want them to stay safe, you want them in your life for a long time, and you don’t want to imagine a world without them in it.
Moral Ambiguity
I am the woman who believes that the meaning of life is the connections we make with other people and here I am pulling away from those who are meant to be the most loving of all.
Eighteen Years
Eighteen years ago on 11 June 1994 I walked down the aisle and married the man I left sixteen years later.
Here Comes the Bride
There seems to be a lot of this marriage thing going around.
The Resilience Formula — how to resolve ANY problem situation
Whatever situation you’re in, you can apply the Resilience Formula which provides you with four choices.
The Exquisite Fabric of Love
She lived a long time believing love became tired and worn out after the first flush of passion died down.