5 Tell-Tale Signs Your Partner Might Have a Mental Condition is written by Alex Moore from Schiz Life.
You have made the commitment to your partner to go through life together, through all of the ups and downs — including sickness and health. Part of this commitment is getting to know your partner better than they know themselves. If you have a close relationship, you are likely to know if something is off with your partner, maybe even before they know it themselves.
Mental illnesses can be debilitating to a relationship, but if you love someone, you will stick by them and become the foundation of their support system. Knowing what lies ahead can be a huge asset in keeping your relationship strong when you are faced with the possibility of a mental illness such as schizophrenia.
Early Warning Signs
There are three phases of schizophrenia: Prodromal, Active, and Residual. The prodromal phase is the first phase of schizophrenia, and this is when you would start to notice some changes is your partner’s behaviour.
The prodromal phase is characterized by symptoms that occur when a person just begins to develop the disorder. It includes the entire period of time from the onset of the behavioural changes to the first full-blown psychotic episode. It is hard to diagnose someone in this phase because the symptoms that are often presented could be the symptoms of other mental disorders as well, such as bipolar disorder and depression.
1. Depression or social withdrawal
Changes in social activity are one of the first displays of schizophrenia. If your partner is suffering from the disorder, they may try to isolate themselves and may have trouble forming or keeping their relationships. They will seem to lose interest in things they once loved and become lost in their own thoughts.
2. Inability to express emotion and inappropriate emotion
Schizophrenia causes people to have trouble conveying emotion. Some will not be able to experience any joy from activities they once loved, but others will feel nothing at all. Many feel discouraged about the future and may experience thoughts of suicide. Feeling detached from their body is common, as is hypersensitivity or hostility in response to their feelings getting hurt. Sometimes they will have significant mood swings or will start crying or laughing at inappropriate times.
3. Deterioration of personal hygiene
Individuals with schizophrenia tend to neglect their personal hygiene. Habits of washing their clothes or hair, and brushing their teeth seem to disappear. Their behaviour will deteriorate and they may not be able to participate or engage in a purposeful activity.
4. Changes in sleep habits and intellectual interests
Sleep disturbances are common in people who suffer from schizophrenia. Some will suffer from insomnia, while others have trouble waking up and getting out of bed. Motor skills seem to deteriorate as they become clumsy and jerky in their movements. They may even lose their interest in intellectual goals and conversations. Stress will intensify these changes, and they may have difficulty dealing with minor problems.
5. Odd, irrational statements
Many people who suffer from schizophrenia display cognitive problems. Making up new words and repeating the same thoughts over and over again are common. Their thoughts and conversations may seem directionless and unrelated. The disease damages the part of the brain that should recognize if something is wrong, so they may have no idea that they aren’t making any sense. They may develop forgetfulness, poor concentration, and difficulty verbally expressing their thoughts.
Active and Residual Phases of Schizophrenia
In the Active phase of schizophrenia, people will engage in a full-blown psychotic episode. These include hallucinations, delusions, disordered thoughts, and a loss of motivation and emotion. The delusions are paranoid beliefs that something is happening like someone is out to get them or they are being controlled by an unknown force. Hallucinations are very similar, but they are sights and sounds that are real in the mind of the person experiencing them. The disordered thoughts and loss of motivation are intensified from the Prodromal phase.
The Residual phase mirrors the Prodromal phase, but the active psychotic episode has subsided. There may be residual effects of the Active phase, like a belief they are still being controlled, but they can’t communicate with those people anymore. Some people will fully recover from a psychotic episode, but others will need treatment and therapy for the rest of their lives.
John Nash and Meera Popkin
Schizophrenia is not as uncommon as most people think. It actually affects 1 out of every 100 people to some degree. Meera Popkin, the lead in the Broadway play, Cats, was diagnosed with the disease in 1997. She had to leave Broadway but came back after she recovered with her treatment.
John Nash was a mathematical genius and winner of the Nobel Prize. The movie A Beautiful Mind is based on his life’s story and battle with schizophrenia.
If your partner is displaying signs of schizophrenia or other mental illness, you should seek help as soon as possible. Early detection and a good support system are the best ways to fight this disease.
4 thoughts on “5 Tell-Tale Signs Your Partner Might Have a Mental Condition”
I don’t personally know someone who has schizophrenia but have friends who have had loved ones with the disease. Great information and I will pass it on.
Hey i just thought about it and its funny that you only write to people who aren’t dead by suicide yet. I mean me an suicidal boy who has friends and everything like and family. So one of my friends already has had a friend who killed themself so i don’t think if i go and just do the same it would change anything. Also i think I’ll leave them a letter just to tell them they aren’t even the problem it’s not their fault or someting like that. It’s funny how you say “hey live along live different do something about it.” I’m pretty sure im apathetic and man i sure don’t care about anything i “dont want to”. HAHAHA man i would love to do all the things but i can’t there is that big boulder you can’t even see it just keeps me from going where i want and sometimes even keeps me from pressing a single button, taking a single bite, going for a simple walk or anything. The people around me say “Blah Blah you don’t do this for us you do it for yourself Blah Blah” so I’m standing here and just don’t say for their sake i don’t, i can’t, i won’t do this for myself. Im seventeen im in the best time of my life and everything has been the same for seventeen years. I AM LONELY. I FEEL NOTHING. I FEEL EMPTY. I DON’T WANT TO HOLD ON. IT’S BEEN SEVENTEEN YEARS NOW SHOULDN’T SOMETHING HAPPEN. THE WONDER OF LIFE LEFT ME IN THE DARK IT SEEMS. WHILE YOU STAND IN FRONT OF THE LIGHT OF LIFE I’M HERE IN THE BACK WITH ALL MY TEARS. I COULDN’T FIND LOVE, I CAN’T FIND HOBBIES, I HAVE FRIENDS AND I CARE ABOUT THEM AND I KNOW THEY WOULD UNDERSTAND, I CAN’T EVEN HOLD ONTO SOMETHING I CANNOT LOVE BECAUSE I WILL LOOSE INTEREST EVENTUALLY. everytime i think about my apathy i cry. knowing that everyone around me cares but i can’t care. im just sitting here waiting to die. everyone is around me as i slowly sink into madness and suicidal thoughts. they all know. but no one knows about my apathy. i cannot tell them. the apathy won’t let me. i cry. eventually i will die. hopefully soon.
i just want to sleep and die.
Scary… I think my friend’s girlfriend has been exhibiting a lot of these signs. I’ll have to show him this to see what he thinks, since he’d know better than me.
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