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Recent Posts

Eating Disorders in Older Women : Deadly, Misunderstood and Underestimated : Part Two

The Stigma of Mental Illness Striving to look younger and thinner is seen as a worthwhile goal in our society. Women who try to achieve…


Eating Disorders in Older Women : Deadly, Misunderstood and Underestimated : Part One

Simone says she is fit and healthy. “I always eat healthy food and stay within my calorie limit for the day. I’m running the City…

Seventeen Years

On this day in 1994 I got married. It’s been a tough day. I’ve cried today more than I have all year. When Duckfish asked…


Here is my latest video creation. Please be warned that you may not find this beautiful or inspirational. Four minutes. Do you dare?  

Wordless Thursday

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Top of the Class

I had two assignments handed back to me on the same day. One was an essay analysing the first page of a novel and the…

Weekend Project – Sunday Afternoon

I made this video in an afternoon for a competition on Vimeo. It is only 1:30 minutes so take a look.  

Tasting Life

“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You…