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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

What Sucks About Being Thin?

Q: What Sucks About Being Thin/Lean/Skinny and having your ideal body? I can hear you, you know, you just said “absolutely nothing” or words to…

Don’t Ask Stupid Questions ~ Can’t You See I’m Marketing?

This post used to be filled with links and videos that no longer work … so in November 2011 I deleted it. I know it’s…

it's just food • for fuck's sake

It’s Just Food for Fuck’s Sake

Food doesn’t have magical powers. Unless you have a full blown medically diagnosed allergy to something (nuts, gluten etc) then you can eat anything you want. Processed or natural, cooked or raw, manufactured or grown in the back garden makes no difference if you are paying attention to your inner voice. There is no bad food.

The First Step into the Light

This is an updated re-post from my old blog So Katie, I’m sick of all this dieting, punishing myself in the gym, feeling like a…

The Secret to Lasting Happiness

When days are crappy it is relatively easy to pinpoint what is going haywire. Once the problem is identified – I am bored, anxious, frustrated,…

Is it Giving Up or Surrender?

When you’ve given up dieting in the past, have you gained weight? Have you thrown your hands in the air and walked away saying “That’s…

How Can You Tell if Intuitive Eating is Working?

Switching from strict dieting to Intuitive Eating is a bewildering experience. How can you know if what you are doing is right? Are you on…

Letting Go

It seems that we are conditioned to seek control in the areas of our life that we perceive as difficult and challenging. For the professional…

Raw and Unrehearsed ~ My First Vlog

I got a webcam and this was my test video. It turned out OK so I dismissed my perfectionist tendencies and posted it anyway. [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXzu5COkrv8]…

The Secret to Permanent Weight Loss

3 Secrets to Get a Booty for Life Today!* If you want to lose thigh fat, get sexy legs, and build a perky butt and booty…

Eating When You’re NOT Hungry

The first instruction of intuitive eating or inner wisdom nutrition is to eat when you are hungry. What happens when you decide to eat when…

Friday 13th ~ To Write Love on Her Arms

rescue is possible, love is the movement Write Love On Her Arms is a not-for-profit organisation started in the States in ’06 by a group…