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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

Welcome home, my lovelies. Enjoy your stay.


Recent Posts

Not a Relationship but a Pirate Ship

When my guy was struggling and fearing “The Relationship”, I almost suggested that instead of having a relationship we should have a pirate ship. Adventure.…

10 Reasons Why You Should Have Sex on the First Date

There is an article doing the rounds that urges people (the author is surprisingly a man) to wait before they have sex with someone new. Everyone is…

Searching for Fullness

Women seem to have the hardest time with overeating, dieting and obsessing about food. Perhaps the reason for this is that most women have a feminine…

Suicide • Why Nobody Loves Me Isn’t a Good Enough Reason to Kill Yourself

When I wrote 10 Things You Should Know Before You Kill Yourself, I spoke from the only perspective I know — my experience as the…

What to Do When Your Partner Cheats

When I published my post I Had an Affair and I’m Not Ashamed, I received a lot of hate mail. One friend posted on my Facebook…

Marked in Ink • a Search for Immortality

On my left wrist, scratched into my skin is a red heart with angel’s wings. I had it done on my 45th birthday at The Illustrated…

I had an affair and I’m not ashamed

If I had been born at a different time you might have stoned me, or forced me to wear a scarlet letter upon my dress.…

Why your self-love efforts aren’t working

After I finished writing yesterday’s post on the three types of love strategies between a couple, it occurred to me that the same principles apply…