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Sexy  + Sassy + Silver + Straight-talking

If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

Welcome home, my lovelies. Enjoy your stay.


Recent Posts

menopause

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My period has disappeared again. It happened once before for three months and then it came back. I know it isn’t coming back any time…

swing top and shorts

Summertime

Three new outfits for summer.

editing

Learning not to give a fuck

Right now I have a nauseous feeling in my stomach and I’m on the verge of tears. What’s written on my work, on the words I massaged for hours, making sure each one was the best it could be, is not what I hoped for.

teacher

True Stories [Hatching a Plan]

I’m starting a FREE online version of my class to work out the kinks. The format will be a mini lecture (sent by email I think), group timed writing practice (10 mins) and a safe place to share your work

sunflower

The Gap

There is a gap between what I wish was true, and what actually is. And as much as I wish it was otherwise, there is nothing I can do to effortlessly transform into a natural size eight.

high voltage

Blocked

It’s Thursday afternoon and I’ve written nothing at all this week. No writing practice, no blog post, no words for my memoir. I’m stuck.

In order to hear Love’s words

Life is too short for us to keep important words, for example, ‘I love you’, locked in our hearts.

the men

Casting the Movie

When I get tired of writing my memoir, I fantasise about who will play who in the Hollywood movie version of my life.
I think I’ve got it sorted out.