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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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Recent Posts

Yoga

[Guest Post] Yoga can help with negative thoughts

If you consider yoga to be an exercise geared toward physical health you may want to reconsider. Yoga can help you stay in the moment and start to release negative thinking.

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Smoking & Dieting – the same flawed approach

I’ll end up that wrinkled old woman with grey skin hooked up to an IV trolley, with only one lung, outside in the hospital carpark lighting up a cigarette.

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What your momma never told you about women

A guide to re-igniting the passion in your relationship after you’ve been together a while (for the boys).

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A Triangular Theory of Love

In order to experience consummate love in a relationship, we have to find a way to have intimacy, commitment and passion. As passion is something we have very little control over – how do we do it?

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It sucks – but some things can’t be fixed

If you’re a women who has no sexual desire for your boyfriend or husband, there’s no magic pill, no morning affirmation, no five simple steps that will fix it. You can’t change the way you feel about someone just because you want to.

Sex • What’s the point again?

If you’re talking about just the physical act of sexual intercourse devoid of anything else, then unless it’s your preferred method for achieving an orgasm, then there might be little point in it. But sex is more than what’s described in Biology text books. Sex is an art, not a science.

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My struggle with mindfulness

Past, present and future. Am I supposed to give up my memories and my dreams so I can live just in this moment?

How to survive quicksand • a guide to uncomfortable feelings

How to survive quicksand : a guide to uncomfortable feelings

I am not asking you to like, want or enjoy uncomfortable feelings. In fact, let’s get rid of the whole acceptance word altogether (here and in the self-love world as well). Let’s make room for uncomfortable feelings instead.