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If you are a woman who has reached a point in her life where she no longer follows the rules, then you are in the right place.

In this small corner of the internet, we believe all women are beautiful, interesting, important and sexually empowered to live however we want. We are too young to know better and old enough to not give a fuck.

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A Vivid Imagination

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Making Your Second Marriage (or Relationship) Better than the First

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Modern Sexual Etiquette • The Ten Commandments

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