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Understanding the Loss of Sexual Desire

Understanding the Loss of Sexual Desire

Understanding The Loss of Sexual Desire written by Sarah McMurchie, Sex and Relationship Coach, first appeared on her website. Emily Nagoski is a badass Ph.D. who…

Why I Stay Married to a Gay Man

Why I Stay Married to a Gay Man

Why I Stay Married to a Gay Man is a personal, intimate story from an anonymous author. I married young, at 19, bright-eyed and hopeful,…

Surprising Facts About Sexless Relationships

Surprising Facts About Sexless Relationships

Surprising Facts About Sexless Relationships, written by Scarlett Laine, originally appeared on Great Sex Inc. A good sex life it is one of the best ways to…

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I have experienced the double whammy of weight gain – quitting smoking and entering full-blown menopause. Now, while just ‘eating less and moving more’ or…

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The Top Ten Ted Talks for the Sexually Curious

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