Let’s face it – online dating can be a nightmare. Your dating profile either gets attention from the wrong type of person, or gets totally ignored. Sometimes you doubt anyone is going to love you again. But it’s not you, it’s your profile. If your profile is sending the wrong message, then that gorgeous, fascinating, almost perfect partner is… Read More
I know that you long for a man to share your experience of the world with. But at the same time you feel like this yearning is wrong and you should be happy being alone. I’m here to tell you that wanting to be with a man who loves you is the core of your feminine essence. I give you permission to want an intimate connection.
[Read Dating Part One before this post] Laundering the sheets, recycling the wine bottles and washing up the glasses, I contemplated the night before. It was technically a one-night stand – the first in more than 20 years. The lure of ‘love em and leave em’ was slightly tarnished in the warm Saturday afternoon sun.… Read More
I said I was moving out because I wanted to be alone. I said that I needed my own space to figure out if I wanted to still be married. I lied. I moved out because I was tired of having to pay for hotel rooms that R. and I only used for a couple… Read More
In the barren wasteland of cyber love carefully constructed words are artfully crafted through the journey of a multitude of encounters, and yet I still hope for that unexpected, overlooked treasure. My romantic heart is weary and parched from the promise of different which turns out to be the same after all. There is a… Read More
The other night I had my first drunken accident. After meeting another disappointing man in a bar, I reverted to my usual coping mechanism of too much red wine. I was a little unsteady on my feet. There was no way I was wearing my 6″ stilettos (why do I bother?) home in my blurred… Read More
Make your online name a very clever Latin phrase Say you are looking for someone to beguile you Use a profile photo that makes you look intense and complex Correct the one spelling mistake in my email [who knew that you complement someone not compliment?] Tell the truth about your age Be much more intelligent… Read More
Make your online name Throbb Say you are looking for your sole mate, or someone with a hart! Use a profile photo with some woman’s arm around you Correct the one spelling mistake in my email [who knew that you complement someone not compliment?] Lie about your age Use a profile photo with your car/dog/sunglasses… Read More