My type and his type

My type and his type - in relationships who are you sexually attracted to?

I find a particular type of man very attractive. Medium height, brown hair, with the body of a swimmer or a runner. Think Adam Levine (oh my …).

All my significant relationships have been with men who have looked similar to each other.

I think men, on the other hand, like variety. Being an in-between kind of woman (curvy but not overweight) I was smaller than my ex-husband’s previous girlfriend, more voluptuous than my lover’s thin wife and more curved than my current boyfriend’s ex-wife. I have often heard women say ‘I can’t believe he left me for someone bigger/smaller/younger/older than me.’ It could be that men enjoy someone who looks different to what they are used to, or maybe their ideas of beauty and attractiveness are more inclusive than women’s.

I don’t really know, I’m just making up shit for fun and finding an excuse to post a picture of a sexy man.

Sorry, what was I saying?

Do you have a type? What kind of man (or woman) are you attracted to?

 

My type and his type - in relationships who are you sexually attracted to?

15 thoughts on “My type and his type

  1. Exactly what Sara said and throw in some Tom Hardy! When I was younger I thought I had a type, but I guess I’m more like a man and really indulge in variety. Mmmmmmmmmen. :)

  2. I almost always wind up dating/being in relationships with tall, thin, long-haired men haha… I certainly don’t look for that on purpose but it keeps happening. Your type is pretty darned nummy too though, cannot blame you for it at allll 😀

  3. I have been sexually attracted to all kinds of people, and most of them look vastly different from one another. I don’t know if this is because I’m male or because, for me, what makes someone attractive is intelligence and a certain naughty twinkle in their eyes…

  4. Beautiful eyes, in fact…I’m shallow…beautiful everything (but not to the exclusion of intelligence, humour, compassion, and a cracking personality). Essentially, all the things I wish I was :)

    Hips. Thighs. Upper arms. Love a bit of tone there.

  5. My taste has changed over the years. Used to go for sexy bad boys when I was young – looks weren’t really the issue – I have been out with some men who were not classically ‘good-looking’ but were incredibly attractive because of their confidence and humour. Now, as a mature woman, I find men like Ricky Gervais attractive because they make me laugh while also making me think about serious issues. Yeah, I know, weird.

    1. Not weird at all — perhaps there is a difference between what visually attracts us and who we would want to be in a relationship with. Maybe as we mature we’re more focused on the insides rather than the outside.
      Nevertheless, a handsome man is a thing of beauty ♥

  6. For pure sex appeal, here are some famous names that do it for me: Robert Downey, Jr., Matthew McConaughey, Lenny Kravitz, Kevin Spacey (yes, I know he’s gay), Tyson Beckford, Chris Hemsworth, Richard Gere, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Idris Elba.

    In general, I like tall and lanky. Not overly muscled. I tend to go for dark hair/eyes over blonde/blue. I had a thing for latin/middle eastern men when I was younger.

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