A Retraction (of sorts)

by KatieP on June 1, 2011

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I think I may have been a little harsh in my previous post. I blame PMT. I wasn’t trying to be negative or infer that ALL girls who compete in figure competitions have eating disorders. I should have stated clearly that according to my experience with two subjects (me and Shelley) it is true that for some women competing can intensify existing disordered behaviour.

Actually, if you want to push me on the subject (of course you do) then I’ll go as far as to say that any type of counting calories and doing cardio for the sole reason of burning fat is definitely a disconnect between mind, body and spirit. But before you go and post a rebuttal to that statement, please know that I get that some people don’t agree with me. And that’s perfectly, absolutely, wonderfully OK. (sorry Duckfish, too many adverbs and a sentence starting with ‘and’. It appears that I haven’t learnt anything from writing school).

The other night, a wise woman told me that we are all swimming in the same river, all trying to get to the same place — happiness. Some of us prefer to go slowly, floating along with the current, some of us flail about with butterfly and others seem to forge ahead with a beautifully elegant freestyle. It is not up to me to criticise you for your choice of stroke. It doesn’t help you and it stops me getting to where I want to go because I’m too busy minding your business. We are all free to find our own way to happiness.

So I apologise if you felt I was attacking everyone in the body building industry. I am sorry if you felt I was criticising your stroke.

But I will still continue to have a voice and an opinion about what is important to me. The way I see things, I will never be convinced that butterfly is more efficient that breaststroke.

So I’m sorry … and I’m not.

Perfect :)

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Shelley Stark June 1, 2011 at 6:23 pm

Everyone deserves to be heard. Everyone’s got an opinion and everyone’s opinion is valid. That’s why we have a voice :) .

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Magda June 1, 2011 at 7:24 pm

And if we didnt want to hear what you had to say, we wouldnt be here reading your blog. (Its just that sometimes we’ll put our own opinions back to you.)
:-) Magda

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Shelley Stark June 2, 2011 at 6:54 am

And just for laughs and Duckfish – it’s Shelley and I not me and Shelley – bahahahaha!

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KatieP June 2, 2011 at 10:22 am

Actually my dear Shelley (said in a posh voice) I think you might find that “me” is correct. :)
The test is you take away the other person and see if it makes sense – Shelley and I went to see Louise = I went to see Louise
- according to my experiment with two subjects (me and Shelley) = according to my experiment with one subject (me). Although I do admit that it is probably meant to be “Shelley and me” rather than the other way around.
Of course I could be wrong. Grammar is not my favourite thing :)

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Shelley Stark June 2, 2011 at 11:50 am

Really? I’ll stand by my opinion anyway ;) .

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KatieP June 2, 2011 at 11:56 am

Most excellent.

KatieP June 2, 2011 at 10:22 am

PS: Don’t you love that picture??

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Shelley Stark June 2, 2011 at 11:51 am

Yes, it’s fabulous darling, fabulous (said in a posh voice). There is a mirror on the front right? (LOL)

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KatieP June 2, 2011 at 11:56 am

Always a mirror — just to check her form of course!

Kek June 2, 2011 at 5:42 pm

I was just going to say how much I love that picture!

Oh OK, I also wanted to say that sometimes it’s really hard to see another point of view. I can’t for the life of me understand how anyone can love cold weather, or dislike heat – but apparently such strange creatures exist. ;)

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