The Butterfly


A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through the little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no further.

So the man decided to help the butterfly, he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily.

But it had a swollen body and small shrivelled wings.

The man expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time. Neither happened!

The butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shrivelled wings. It never was able to fly. What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening was nature’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If we went through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been.

We could never fly.


photo → Spettacolopuro

About Katie Paul

Embracing my midlife sexy while exploring modern love & relationships • Devoted to all things beautiful • Master of Arts in creative writing & non-fiction writing • Join the hottest group on FB → Sassy Ageless Women

0 thoughts on “The Butterfly

  1. PHEW! You are ok!!! I read yesterday’s post last night and all I wanted to do was to hug ya! Go back to your pic from I’ve been exposed – you look amazing honey – better than ever – and I’ve seen you quite naked 😉 Scales are bullshit – I weighed myself (only cause I had too) on the weekend – i looked at the number and laughed! I couldnt give a fuck about what scales say – i give a fuck about who loves me, my family my friends my happiness and health…..LOVE YA xx

  2. Thanks Babe ~ today is a much better day, especially after banana oats and a fruit english muffin. I am still learning to listen to my body and when I push too hard that’s when I crash. Love IS the most important thing of all … counting the days 😉

  3. Yep-as the very old, but very valid saying goes-that which does not kill us, makes us stronger-and we are ALL getting stronger! cheers hon!

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