I asked a group of 268 sassy women to tell me the one thing they wished men (or their sexual partners of either sex) knew about them. Here are some of their answers.
1 — Just because you think something should feel good doesn’t mean it makes me feel good.
2 — Sometimes I just want to talk about my feelings and get a hug.
3 — Turning down sex doesn’t mean we don’t think you’re attractive or we don’t want you… maybe we just had a bad day. Don’t make a big deal out of it.
4 — Sometimes we are just not going to get “there”. It doesn’t mean it wasn’t good.
5 — Porn action does not cross over into the real world.
6 — If I tell you I don’t like something, trying it anyway will definitely kill the mood.
7 — Pinching the nipples does not turn me on – at all.
8 — It rarely works if you try to engage my crotch first.
9 — Learn how to be a great kisser. It’s important.
10 — Dick pics won’t make us wanna get it on.
11 — It’s not wee.
12 — My erogenous zones are not only my boobs and vagina.
13 — We really do masturbate.
14 — If I fantasize about something, it doesn’t mean I want to live it for real.
What about you? What do you wish your sexual partners knew about sex?
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